Tuesday, September 6, 2011

Celebrate Good Times: Birthday Highlights


seven sacraments, seven gifts of the Holy Spirit, seven dwarves and...
seven years for MGD.


Her date for the day.  They went to the Movie Tavern and to run a few errands while I...


decorated the cake--with help from Sophie and Ella, mostly in the area of frosting licking.
I did not follow a recipe or guide for the cake and loved the final result except for two things--I used A LOT of sugar to decorate AND it turns out that Grace doesn't like chocolate cake very much.  She was unfazed but I was a bit sad.


Grace came home from her daddy date to a surprise dinner party!  Four sisters and four extra guests.  Madeleine helped me play waitress and even dressed the part!  Oh--and I told you you'd see those mustaches again!  More party details maƱana--after the mountain of dishes is done.

Tata till then.

Monday, September 5, 2011

Montage Monday

It's Monday.  Oh best of days!  I decided that I require a day to throw out all the miscellaneous photos and stories of the week and Monday seems as good a candidate as any.  So here it is, the first of my Montage Mondays.


 Chris and I went on a date this week.  To the Apple Store to see a genius about a problem...

 ...and to a table for two afuera.  A rare treat thanks to our "cool front".

 Sophie braved the big girl slide at the pool for the very first time!!


 Mia followed (for the 100+ time)

 These two are roomies and are thick as thieves these days


 Sophie wakes up in the morning and cuddles Ella before getting up for the day



 Ella made this turtle at Super Friday and named her, of all things, Princess Alice

Hide and Seek

Sophie thought this guy at Lowes was "so cool!"
I am quite worried

A friend returned our bassinet this week.  Ella regressed much to the delight of her sisters!


Mia and friend found a very creative way to clean the dining room floor.

And the biggest news?  Our third Doyle Dame turns seven tomorrow.  We have a lot of fun and quite a few surprises planned.  That's for her.  Personally, I don't need any more surprises.  I remain awed and amazed at the speed at which time flies.  Grace has promised to be with me forever but I think she'll change her mind.  And I miss her already.

More miscellanea next week on Montage Monday!!

Sunday, September 4, 2011

Rachel's Dress

 This was Rachel's dress.  She wore it so well.  Like a princess.  Then one day, it was too short and too small.  Now, it's Mia's dress.  In it, she's a princess too.  One day, the dress will go to Grace and, if it survives her, Sophie.  Then Ella.  One dress.  So many girls.  Thank you Rachel for starting it all!





Saturday, September 3, 2011

A Few Album Covers

 The girls love playing with my Mac's "photo booth".  They know much more about it than their Mama and some of their masterpieces would probably make good album covers.  Or, I could combine them under the title "Faces I Love".  Here, a few:






Happy Sunday!!

Friday, September 2, 2011

Feels Like Redemption

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1Qwyot158wM&feature=player_detailpage

So, I have a new favorite song.  It's by a guy named Michael English.  I know nothing about him but his song is amazing.  And it's appropriate in light of my last post.  Chris has been telling me for awhile now that Michael Vick's is a redemption story.  And so is mine really.  I am much more a Mary Magdalene than a St. Therese.  I remember reading about St. Therese and how she felt when she was told that the saints who were the greatest sinners supposedly loved God best.  She must have had some of the competitive spirit in her because she wanted to love God best herself!
I really like the images in the song and the idea of "feeling redemption".  Check it out.  I hope you like it too.

Alice

Thursday, September 1, 2011

But For The Grace

I've been listening to a bit of sports radio lately.  Chris has it on in the Pilot so, when I drive that car, I catch up on how the other half thinks.  I don't know about you but I find it truly amazing that men can remember every important sports moment and have an opinion on everything related to, say, football, but can never seem to remember the details of a conversation--like the name of a friend's new baby.  Truly a mystery, no?
But that's not the subject of this post.  Yesterday, when I turned the key and backed out of the driveway, host Colin Cowherd was talking about Michael Vick.  He was commenting that he couldn't go so far as to say that MV is evil, he simply assumes that Vick is missing something in his brain, an important part, one that would tell him that something like watching two dogs tear each other apart is evil.  I'm guessing that Cowherd was responding to a call about Michael Vick's new contract.  Perhaps the caller brought up Vick's transgressions and the "injustice" of his multi-million dollar paycheck in light of his past.  I don't know.  What I do know is that Cowherd's comments made me cringe--a feeling that had less to do with the specifics of Michael Vick and his circumstances than with the enormous lack of a sense of "there, but for the grace of God, go I" that I encounter over and over in my life.
There's a big difference between making a judgement about an action by saying something like, "abortion is wrong" or "living together outside of marriage is sinful" and making a judgement against a person by saying, "he's missing an important part of the brain to be able to do that" or "cry me a river, she deserves everything she gets".  The first statements concern a behavior, the second, a person, his/ her soul and the possibility of change.  To which kind of statement was Jesus referring when he urged, "Judge not and you will not be judged; condemn not and you will not be condemned; forgive and you will be forgiven" (Luke 6:37-38)?
The fact is, it would be impossible to determine the true responsibility an individual has for his or her actions.  Who can say with certainty what he/ she would have done in Michael Vick's shoes for example?  We are all born into different situations with different gifts, talents, inclinations etc.  That is why while we can accurately say that a choice a person makes is wrong, bad or sinful, we cannot judge the person himself.  That is God's job.
But to take the specific case of animal cruelty and Michael Vick,  I have never seen a dog fight and have no idea how vicious they are.  I have also never seen a cock fight, not uncommon in some cultures.  I'm sure those are quite vicious as well.  I have attended a bull fight and found it upsetting.  The vast majority of the spectators there with me found it to be a pleasant way to spend an afternoon.  This is an example of a difference in culture, not virtue.  I'm not saying that dog fighting is the same as bull fighting.  I am simply saying that the same activity can be viewed very differently by different people.
Colin Cowherd's comments about Michael Vick implied that Vick is a less moral person, a person beneath him.  They implied that, in a sense, he is irredeemable and incapable of change, that there is something inherently wrong with him and, all of that because of the criminally, abominably horrible thing he did.  Hmmm...
So, here's the thing.  We live in a country where doctors go to work and kill babies.  Legally.  Every day.  Some of them are babies who could live outside of the womb at the time they are killed.  Studies have proven that these babies feel pain.  The rest of us go about our lives every day, drinking coffee, surfing the internet, training for marathons, raising our own children, knowing that this is going on and doing nothing.  I would say that we have all lost a little bit of our brains.  Or, perhaps just that we're all sinful and selfish and concerned about the wrong things most of the time.
Which is why I strongly advocate a policy of "there but for the grace of God go I".  Human beings are incapable of any goodness on our own.  We owe everything to God and God alone.  We can pat ourselves on the back now for doing more or being better than the next guy but one day, we'll be compared against the standard of our ideal self, the self God made us to be.  That is the only standard that matters and it is individual.
Michael Vick's past is his past.  He did his time.  What should be important to sports enthusiasts is his now and, to quote Cowherd again, "there are running quarterbacks and then there's Michael Vick".  Apparently he's so good, he's in his own category.  What a wonderful thing that he could come back from such a huge fall and, face to the sun, move on in life using his God-given gifts.
Regardless of what the talking heads are saying, Michael Vick does get another chance, a do over, a try again.  I know I've needed one--or a thousand--of those.  And you?

Inauspicious beginnings.  I suppose roots do matter.  And all dirt roads lead to Blacksburg.
(says a graduate of Mr. Jefferson's University up the road a bit :)

Tuesday, August 30, 2011

Celebrate Good Times: The Name Game

I have always loved to name things.  It may have started when my parents let four-year-old me choose between two names for my second little brother.  My choices were Brian or Neil.  I remember my criteria for choosing Neil.  I thought it went much better with Alice and David.  Alice, David and Neil worked better than Alice, David and Brian.  I have a feeling Neil could have been a much different person as a Brian and since I like him the way he is, I am quite content to have chosen the best of names for him.
When Chris and I were first married, I drove him crazy with my name shopping.  Pregnant or not, I was always on the lookout for favorites.  I collected enough to name twice the number of children the woman in the shoe had living with her.  The five we gave our girls are so incredibly perfect.  Each fits its owner, is very feminine and will work whether she marries a prince or a rock star or dons a habit.
Our dames seem to have inherited my love of naming things.  All of their babies and animals have unique ones--except Ella's--she names all of hers Chaucer.  This week, the girls decided to change their own names and asked me to call them "Samantha/ Sam" (Mia), "Mary/ Martha" (Grace), "Violet" (Sophie) and "Penelope" (Ella).  Madeleine likes her name as it is and I was really the initiator of Ella's "Penelope", a name I've always loved.  The girls are insisting on calling me and Chris "ma" and "pa".  I'm trying to play the part though I am 100% certain that I have less than a quarter of Caroline Ingall's patience.  Oh--and I can't make much of anything from scratch.

Tata till next time,
Alice